How I Changed My Life With These 5 Simple Mindset Shifts 🧠✨🚀
Sis, surviving was cute for a season… but THRIVING? That’s the vibe now 🤍🚀✨
Let’s be real. I was in my “just making it” era way longer than I care to admit. Waking up tired 😪, accepting crumbs 🥞, and thinking “heyyyy at least I’m not dead” — like THAT was the standard. Chile. Never again 🤦🏾♀️
Here are the mindset shifts that literally changed my life (and might just change yours too, sis 🙏🏾):
1. “I’ll figure it out” > “I have no idea what I’m doing” 🤔🕵️♀️ Instead of spiraling every time life felt confusing, I started telling myself, “Girl, we’ll figure it out.” That one line made me feel like Olivia Pope with a Bible ⛪ and a budget 💳. Period.
2. “Rest is productive” > “Sleep when you’re dead” 🛌😪 No ma’am. We’re not glamorizing burnout over here. I used to feel guilty for resting, now I be napping like it’s part of my self-care plan ✨ (because it is). The to-do list can wait ✉️. This nap? Cannot 🥺.
3. “That’s not my business” > “Let me fix everyone” 🤓👀 Mind ya business = mental peace 🌿. I stopped trying to heal, fix, or micromanage people who ain’t even asked for help. Not my circus 🎡. Not my clown 🤡.
4. “I deserve it” > “Maybe I’ll earn it one day” 💕👑 That bare-minimum mentality had me out here begging for things I already deserved — love, rest, soft life. Now I walk in like God already said yes 🙌🏾 — because He did 💛.
5. “What if it works out?” > “What if I fail?” 🫰🪩 I had to rewire my anxious brain to expect GOOD things ✨. Like, what if you actually get the job? 💼 What if the blog blows up? 🚀 What if he’s not trash? (Okay, maybe not that one… let’s not push it 😂).
Sis, surviving is over ❌. You’re in your thriving era now 💅🏾💫
Mind your energy ⚡, drink your water 💧, take your vitamins 🦮, and believe in the version of you that already has it all. She’s closer than you think 😍💜
Now it’s your turn, sis 👇🏾
Which mindset shift hit the hardest for you? Drop a comment and let me know—or share your own! Let’s grow together 💕✨
And if this blessed you even a little bit, go ‘head and send it to a friend who needs this reminder too 🫶🏾
You deserve to thrive, not just survive 💅🏾 #ThrivingEra #GlowUpSeason #HealingEra #MindsetMatters
